
Your baby is growing up and you are now confronted with invitations to teen parties. How well do you know your teen’s friends? How well do you know their parents?
While High School offers a great experience for your young teen to meet new people and make new friends, it becomes harder to keep up with whom your child is spending their time. When invited to a party, it is very important to know the atmosphere your child will be in and the people they will be with. Never assume that all parents have the same rules or values as you do!
• Ask parents that you already know and trust if they are familiar with this new friend and his/her family. Someone may know them and be able to give you information.
• Call the parents of the teen throwing the party and ask them if there will be adults supervising the party at all times. You can confirm the drop off time and pick up time as well.
• You might ask the new parents if you could stop by and introduce yourself ahead of time. Or, when dropping your teen off at the party go to the door and introduce yourself at that time.
Of course, your teen may be embarrassed about your concern and may feel you are meddling. You may explain to them that it is your responsibility as a parent to know where your children are spending their time, and that their safety is very important.
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